Feel insignificant, unwanted, unloved? Or if you were a mistake? God chose you. He appointed you. Here are 4 things Jesus says to you.

4 things Jesus says to you {John 15.16}

Do you have days when you feel insignificant, unwanted, or unloved? You may have wondered if you were a mistake, or if God mixed up your place in life.

Maybe I’ve shared this before, but I used to wish I was not a preacher’s daughter. I didn’t think much of the role when I was a teenager. I was mostly concerned about how my friends saw me.

I wanted what I thought was a ‘normal’ teenage life. These feelings eventually led to me wonder why God would put me in a family like mine if I couldn’t even appreciate it.

We find encouragement for feelings like this scattered throughout God’s word.

There is no lack of reminders we are His children, created by Him, made for His pleasure…and that He places us exactly in the places we’re meant for.

Some chapters in the Bible are so rich it’s almost too much to contain. For me, the fifteenth chapter of John is one of those. Today, I want to share 4 things Jesus says to you, all found in one verse.

Before we get to that, let’s look at a few of the well-known statements leading up to John 15.16. I think it’s safe to say Jesus was on a roll. He said:

  • I am the true vine, and my Father [God] is the gardener. John 15.1
  • Abide in Me, and I in you. John 15.4
  • Those who abide in Me and I in them bear much fruit, because apart from Me you can do nothing. John 15.5b
  • If you remain in Me and My words remain in you, you may ask for anything you want, and it will be granted. John 15.7
  • As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love. John 15.9
  • These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full. John 15.11
  • Love one another as I have loved you. John 15.12b
  • No one has greater love [no one has shown stronger affection] than to lay down (give up) his own life for his friends. John 15.13
  • I have called you My friends… John 15.15

What encouragement for those struggling with your place, purpose, or reason for being. And, finally…

John 15.16

You didn’t choose me. I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting fruit, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name.

Here is what Jesus wants you to know.

In this moment, let’s focus on these 4 things Jesus says to you in John 15.16.

#1 – You did not choose Him.

Have you ever said, “I’m so glad I found Jesus?” It’s okay. I have, too, but it’s important to recognize this is incorrect. Yes, we decide to accept Jesus as Savior and live for Him, but make no mistake about it. He knew you long before you knew Him.

In fact, Jesus, who is one with Father, knit you together in your mother’s womb. He knew you before conception. You did not choose Him.

#2 – He chose you.

When we read this story in context we recognize Jesus is speaking to His disciples. His days on earth were ending. This was His time to teach ¹a clear understanding of their position with God, as well as what was expected of them.

This Word is also for us. We believe it applicable to our life today, so John 15.16 is for you. He chose you as His child. He chose you to come into right relationship with Him. He chose you to receive the promises and benefits made available to all who call upon Him as Lord and Savior. It was His choice to choose you.

#3 – He appointed you.

Are you thinking, “I don’t understand why he appointed me to this, because I do not see God in this situation or the mess that is my life, now?”

Understand what He has appointed you to. In this verse, Jesus is telling the disciples, “I’ve appointed you to go and bear fruit…” The same applies to you and me. He walks with us on the journey of life. He leads us in making decisions – sometimes we listen, sometimes we don’t.

We decide where to go to school, what jobs to take, whom to marry, where we attend church, and the list goes on. In the middle of all of those “life” things, He has appointed you – to bear fruit and draw others to Him.

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There will be times we struggle so with our own situation that we are not much good as fruit-bearers. God knows everything we are facing. He understands, but we must not forget what He has called us to.

As we go through the hard times and come out on the other side, He is there waiting – reminding us of our appointment.

#4 – He will give you what you ask for, in His name.

Yes, He will, but there is a catch. ¹Jesus linked the request making with the fruit bearing. It is His good pleasure to grant our requests, but we must keep our appointment.

Feel insignificant, unwanted, unloved? Wondering if you were a mistake? God's chose you. He appointed you. Here are 4 things God says to you.So, we lean into Jesus, growing and becoming more like Him. We live as one on assignment from the Father. Only then is He released to give us what we need, even what we ask for, but as it pertains to seeing more fruit realized.

He chose you. There is nothing about you insignificant, unwanted, or unloved, nor was there a mistake or mix-up.

I was born the daughter of a preacher. It was one of the appointments of my life. Today, I understand it positioned me to bear fruit.

He wants to give you what you ask for, but there is a catch. Are you willing to work at producing fruit [by touching people, loving the broken, serving others, sharing the Gospel]?

Friend, I believe you have an appointment to keep.

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¹Life Application Bible Commentary: John

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The thought of “4 things” in John 15.16 came to me while doing an amazing Bible study by Kasey Van Norman – Named by God. I cannot say enough good things about this study. I went through it alone, but it is also perfect for a women’s small group.

10 thoughts on “4 things Jesus says to you {John 15.16}

  1. Thanks for the reminder! It’s easy to be overcome with the feelings of unworthy and unlovable!
    I am called and appointed to bear fruit. I know this, but re-etched it in my heart again. That’s so beautiful!
    Your #faithfilledFriday neighbor,
    Julie

    • I appreciate your kind comments, Julie, and grateful the mission of WhileIPonder.com to encourage others is at work. I’m headed over now to read your recent post. Blessings…

  2. Wow… just wow… So much richness in just that one verse. It’s funny how the same message keeps coming around when God’s trying to impress something on my heart. {our children’s message this past Sunday used the same verse…} Many a time I’ve wondered why I am in the position I’m in- whether I placed myself there or God called me there and when things feel hard I find myself leaning on the second part of 1 Peter 5:12 too… “My purpose in writing is to encourage you and assure you that what you are experiencing is truly part of God’s grace for you. Stand firm in this grace.” So blessed to have found you through Aimee’s feature this week! ♥ Have a wonderful weekend Karlene!

    • Thank you so much, Heather, and I thank God He has used this to confirm things He was already speaking to you. When I read John 15.16 now, I am literally moved to tears. Yes, so much richness! And I pray this truth goes down deep into your children for the days to come.

  3. Hi Karlene,
    What a hope-filled reminder of how precious we really are. So precious that God would choose us! Thank you for sharing this at #MomentsofHope! I loved having you join us last week!
    Blessings and smiles,
    Lori

  4. This really spoke to me, because I’ve been studying that time in Jesus’ last days and what He was teaching the disciples. Excellent!

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